You are not alone in this. We all struggle with this at some point or another. I think yes you can find love again. Something I want to point out here. If you haven't found it yet, does it make sense to keep doing what you have done in the past. Have you stepped outside of your box to find love. What I mean is have you tried different approaches, different mindsets or ideas to find love.
You can find it again, trust me on that one. I know, it may not seem that way right now, but you will be able to find a woman to love again. What you first have to do is to get over the pain that you are feeling right now over the woman you have lost. You have to remind yourself that all it really means is that you are no longer with someone with whom you can't make a relationship work and if you learn the right attraction skills, you can replace her with someone who is better for you in the long run.
That doesn't always mean that it is going to be easy. It doesn't mean that you are going to just forget about her or that you are not going to have moments where you feel like you want her back in your life. All it means is that you have to keep your eyes on the reality that you can find someone else.
Do you dismiss men easily or get offended by them at times? If so, maybe you are being to hard on them and have a sense of entitlement. A sense of entitlement is the ugliest thing in the world to a man. Accept that boys will be boys and cut them some slack. Some are clueless, but that doesn't always mean they are jerks or bad men.
All the crazy, unattractive, messed up, still living with their parents at 35, no job, mean spirited, buck toothed, long working hours, stuttering people and worse that have found love, have done so because they loved themselves and opened themselves up fully to the power of being loved.This one magical state attracts love like you could never believe! Love is attracted to love. At our most primal level, we know in our hearts that once you are tuned in to your own ability to feel positively toward others, you will find someone special. This creates an intimate connection with the rest of the human race that allows and sometimes beckons others to gravitate toward us.
At other times we can lose this ability to love due to fears about what the future may bring or a painful past. Additionally, no matter how much someone may at one time love you, if you cannot fully love them back, the relationship is doomed. In these cases people often find themselves in difficult and emotionally draining situations or find the whole process too hard and simply give up on relationships.If this has previously been you or you notice some similar behaviors, it doesn't always have to be this way.What you need to do is start to change the world by filling your own life with the kind of love other people find intoxicating, attractive and irresistible. If you are open and honest with others, you will find that you start connecting with people in ways you may previously have thought impossible. Living your life in this way will show you love that you once thought only existed in fairy tales!
There are thousands of stories from which a person found the love of their life in a grocery store, at the gas station and believe it or not, people have found love in jail. The point is to take advantage of every opportunity in life.By opportunity I mean take a chance to talk to someone who you don't know. I'm not saying that you're going to fall in love with a bum or someone on the bus, but just start striking up conversations with people. Share your personality and your intelligence with the people you meet.
You can find it again, trust me on that one. I know, it may not seem that way right now, but you will be able to find a woman to love again. What you first have to do is to get over the pain that you are feeling right now over the woman you have lost. You have to remind yourself that all it really means is that you are no longer with someone with whom you can't make a relationship work and if you learn the right attraction skills, you can replace her with someone who is better for you in the long run.
That doesn't always mean that it is going to be easy. It doesn't mean that you are going to just forget about her or that you are not going to have moments where you feel like you want her back in your life. All it means is that you have to keep your eyes on the reality that you can find someone else.
Do you dismiss men easily or get offended by them at times? If so, maybe you are being to hard on them and have a sense of entitlement. A sense of entitlement is the ugliest thing in the world to a man. Accept that boys will be boys and cut them some slack. Some are clueless, but that doesn't always mean they are jerks or bad men.
All the crazy, unattractive, messed up, still living with their parents at 35, no job, mean spirited, buck toothed, long working hours, stuttering people and worse that have found love, have done so because they loved themselves and opened themselves up fully to the power of being loved.This one magical state attracts love like you could never believe! Love is attracted to love. At our most primal level, we know in our hearts that once you are tuned in to your own ability to feel positively toward others, you will find someone special. This creates an intimate connection with the rest of the human race that allows and sometimes beckons others to gravitate toward us.
At other times we can lose this ability to love due to fears about what the future may bring or a painful past. Additionally, no matter how much someone may at one time love you, if you cannot fully love them back, the relationship is doomed. In these cases people often find themselves in difficult and emotionally draining situations or find the whole process too hard and simply give up on relationships.If this has previously been you or you notice some similar behaviors, it doesn't always have to be this way.What you need to do is start to change the world by filling your own life with the kind of love other people find intoxicating, attractive and irresistible. If you are open and honest with others, you will find that you start connecting with people in ways you may previously have thought impossible. Living your life in this way will show you love that you once thought only existed in fairy tales!
There are thousands of stories from which a person found the love of their life in a grocery store, at the gas station and believe it or not, people have found love in jail. The point is to take advantage of every opportunity in life.By opportunity I mean take a chance to talk to someone who you don't know. I'm not saying that you're going to fall in love with a bum or someone on the bus, but just start striking up conversations with people. Share your personality and your intelligence with the people you meet.
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